Supporting children on their journey home: the role of foster carers
Foster carers provide more than just a safe and loving home when children need it most, they play a pivotal role in supporting children to return home, when it is safe and in the child’s best interests.
Formerly referred to as reunification, the process of a child going home forms a significant part of the fostering journey – one that relies on careful planning and shared hope. When thoughtfully facilitated, it can have lifelong benefits for children and families.
Why returning home matters
Going home allows children in care to reconnect with their birth parents and wide family network. It helps them build a strong sense of identity, belonging and emotional stability, within a familiar environment in their community. A successful return home marks the beginning of a new chapter - not just for the child - but for their entire family. To ensure this transition is safe and sustainable, it must be carefully assessed, planned, and supported by everyone involved.
A shared responsibility
Reuniting a child with their family requires a team effort. Families, foster carers, social workers, and partner agencies must work together with a shared purpose: to create the best possible environment for children to thrive at home. Foster carers are instrumental in this process and can support the Going Home journey in several ways.
- Attending planning meetings and contributing constructively – your insights are invaluable
- Staying positive about the child’s return home - your attitude can influence how the child feels.
- Preparing the child emotionally by discussing the transition in a supportive, age-appropriate way.
- Collaborating with social workers and birth families to share routines, preferences, and insights that help the child feel safe.
- Supporting family time contact before the move to help the child adjust gradually.
- Offering reassurance - children may feel torn or anxious, and your calm presence can make a big difference.
- Maintaining contact after the child returns home, if appropriate and welcomed by the child.
Supporting foster carers during this time
We understand that reunification can be an emotional time for foster carers too. If you have any concerns or need support during this process, please speak to your supervising social worker or connect with others through The Hive. You’re not alone, and your wellbeing matters.
Updated ‘Going Home Pathway’ procedure
We’ve recently refreshed our Going Home Pathway Procedure, which focuses on supporting children in care to safely return home to their parents or those with parental responsibility. This updated guidance ensures that every child’s journey home is underpinned by care, commitment, and collaboration.
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